Sain sellise tagasiside/ Got such feedback:
Tere,
Kaks aastat tagasi Eesti Ekspressi intervjuus küsis ajakirjanik, et kas inimesed ikka kuulavad sinu elutarkust, eriti kui arvestada, et kõik filmid ja raamatud rääkivat samal teemal, aga inimesed ikka astuvad puusse. Sinu vastus oli, et inimesed pole veel sobivuse tähendusest aru saanud. Lisasid: "Kui ma kas või ühe inimese saaksin päästa sellest õnnetusest, kuhu ma ise langesin, siis on mu eesmärk täidetud."
Kuidas sa kaks aastat hiljem oma missiooni mõju hindaksid? Kas olete saanud tagasisidet selle kohta, kuidas teie blogist keegi ammutas piisavalt inspiratsiooni, et püüelda sobiva elukaaslase leidmise poole ning seejärel tegelikult ka õnne leidis? Ise olen tänulik, et te olete minu arusaamasid muutuste suunas mõjutanud, aga seda, et kuna mina endale sobiva kaaslase leian, seda võib juba kes iganes ennustada. Kuid vähemalt olen juba piisavalt tark, et vältida õnnetust, milles sa aastaid virelesid. Selliseid nagu mina on kindlasti juba suhteliselt palju. Aga kui paljud nendest on tegelikult leidnud õige inimese, oskate seda juba hinnata? Või on kolm aastat veel liiga vara, et midagi paikapanevat järeldada?
Two years ago an interviewer asked you whether or not people would actually listen to what you have to say about relationships, given that the literature and film art are replete with the messages you seem to promote, but many people still make the same mistakes over and over again. Your response was that people are yet to understand what compatibility and suitability with one's partner really means. You also said: "If I manage to save at least one person from the misery I fell into, I consider my mission accomplished."
How would you assess the influence of your mission a couple of years down the road? Have you got feedback regarding how reading your blog helped a person to strive for perfect relationship and ultimately led him to success regarding that? I personally am grateful that you've influenced a shift in my own views, but when I'm going to find the suitable relationship is anybody's guess really. At least now I'm aware enough to circumvent the misery that plagued you for years. The likes of me must be relatively plentiful by now. Still, how many of them have actually found a right person? Is it possible to assess that today or is it still too early to make a judgment of any conclusive worth?
Ta!
Minu vastus/ My answer:
Olen saanud tagasisidet, et inimesed on saanud abi, ja see innustab. Et olen saanud vähemalt kadagigi aidata. Konkreetseid juhtumeid pole kahjuks teada. Aga, nagu juba mainitud, suur võit on sobimatust suhtest eemalehoidmine.
I have got feedback and people have got help. This inspires. That I've had an opportunity to help at least someone. Concrete cases are unknown unfortunately. But as mentioned, avoiding an unsuitable relationship is a big victory already.
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Rõõm kuulda, et tunned et sust on olnud inimestele abi. A kas see raamat, millest te olete rääkinud, see on endiselt loomisfaasis? Või te tunnete nüüd, et ehk ei ole vaja koondada kõike blogisolevat antud formaati?
Glad to hear that you feel you've been of help. But that book you've spoken of, is that still a work in progress? Or do you now feel that there's no real need to concentrate all that you've written in this here blog into that particular format?
Jah, see raamat tuleb, tegeleme sellega. Kuigi blogi on ka hea vorm tekstide avaldamiseks.
Yes, that book is coming. And besides, the blog is a way to publish texts.
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